Thursday, November 26, 2009

Safety Town

We went to Safety Town in Frisco yesterday with my family and with our friends Leah and Mike from Utah. The kids LOVED IT!! They had this big fire truck that they could climb all over. They also have this little mini town built outside that explains how to get through the city, stop at lights and all sorts of different things. me and katie all dressed up!

She's ready for a ride
My handsome fireman~

Thanksgiving

What am I thankful for.....

my family
hard working husband
happy children
home cooked food
cars
the zoo
church
books
talking in bed
family living close by
train rides
clean kitchen
potty trained 2 year old
costco
sewing
pictures
good advice
feather pillows
good tv shows
fun things to do
smiles
kids that take naps
feeding the ducks
a babbling baby
schedules
menus
going out to lunch
trips
my sister
computer
craft projects
losing weight
sweet little "thank yous"
conversations with a 2 year old
watching tv with jared
reading bedtime books as a family
watching Jared play with the kids
Carolines sweet and easy disposition
Ryans eagerness to learn and discover new things
reading scriptures
good friends
the list goes on and on and on

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Just so I remember

the other day we were driving in the car and ry kept trying to tell me something, and I just didn't understand what he was saying. All the sudden I heard a sigh and ry said,"nevermind mom, just nevermind."

Ry found a little lunch box the other and started to carry it around here is our conversation surrounding the lunch box

RY: bye mom i'm going to work.
MOM: bye hon have a great day.
(Ry walks to the garage door)
RY: hon, where are my keys! i can't find my keys, hon do you know where my keys are?
MOM:here ry here are some keys.
RY: oh, thanks hon(he walks back to the garage door and opens it)
RY:OH NO MY JEEP, WHERE DID MY JEEP GO? MY JEEP IS GONE!!!


Ryan was leaving yesterday to go fishing with gramps
MOM: Bye Ry be a good boy and listen to gramps. I love you!
RY: Bye hon, have a good day, i love you too!

he has been talking up a storm and it's so fun to hear all the crazy little things his mind thinks up!!

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Strong Willed Child

The best book I've read in awhile!!! We have a totally new kid in our house and it is amazing. He listens the very first time or else he knows there will be a consequence right away! I feel better because I'm not asking, yelling, begging, talking, or explaining over, and over and over again-I say it JUST ONCE! We went out lunch yesterday and I explained to him how I wanted him to behave while we were eating lunch and that if he didn't act that way, I would take him into the bathroom and give him a spanking. Well it worked like a charm, Ry sat in his chair quietly and played with his cars and ate his food nicely. He did get one spanking in the bathroom because I was being a super stickler and he was standing up on the rungs of his chair. After that it was smooth sailing and I got to sit at lunch with my friends and talk for over an hour with little interruptions!!
The other night after I finished reading the book I explained to Jared how things need to operate from now on. Ryan woke up from his nap and we were off, we were about half way through the night when Ryan exclaimed,"Mom, I'm a HAPPY BOY!" while jumping up and down! At that moment I was sold, I knew it was working and that we would stick with it!!

Saturday, November 21, 2009

New Schedule

Okay so after my hellish week I decided that we needed some major changes in our house!! I have become pretty lazy and letting the TV take over our lives. I love TV and I love that my kids enjoy watching TV, but on the days that we didn't go anywhere it was all that we did. Ry is starting to be pretty difficult, sassy, defiant and so I realized that we needed some major changes in our life. It's a change that I have been resisting for two years now, it's something I've never enjoyed and haven't wanted to be held too and that thing is a SCHEDULE!!! So here is our new schedule!


7am: I get up and get dressed


7:30: Ryan gets up goes potty and gets dressed


7:45: We make breakfast and sometime in there Caroline wakes up.


8: Ryan plays with a toy of my choosing


8:30: Clean up and read books to both of the kids


9: we go to the park or library or run an errand. This might also become the time I go to the gym,but we will see.


10ish: Caroline goes down for a nap and Ryan and I start school time.


We do ABC flash cards, shapes and numbers, read a book about the theme for that week, do an art project, and read another book-this time is changing and evolving as we find what works for us.


11: Ry plays in the family room with blocks or legos while I get lunch ready and Caroline wakes up sometime during this period.


11:30: We eat lunch


12: ry reads books while I play with Caroline


12:30:We all play together sort of.


1: they both go down for a nap in separate rooms and I rest or clean, but most likely rest.


3: We get out of the house again and do something just depends on whats going on.


5: Caroline takes another little nap and this is where the day get a little sketchy I'm not sure what goes on, usually I clean while Ry plays


6: I make dinner


6:30 We eat dinner


7: The kids take a bath


7:30 Jared read books


8: The kids are in bed fast asleep!





If you didn't notice there was no TV in there!! We did it all week, and it was great Ry didn't miss it and I didn't miss it too bad. It's a lot of work to keep him busy all day(and I'd go to bed exhausted) and today I decided that Saturdays are TV DAY, I'm just to tired to try and keep him busy all day today too. It was a lot of work but everyone was happier and alot gentler. That's been part of the problem Ryan has been really rough and aggressive, but I think it has helped, so that's great. The funniest thing was Caroline was the MOST excited today to watch TV, she was kicking her legs and flapping her arms and laughing when she saw the TV on this morning. She just sat in her high chair and ate her breakfast(for over an hour)!


So this is a rough draft and what I'm trying to stick to, things have been better and I've noticed a difference. I now there will be changes, things will happen, we will go to the zoo,mimi's, or whatever but at least I have a plan for my day and that has seemed to make a difference for everyone involved.


Check back with me in a couple of weeks and see if we still have our schedule, but for now it's working!! One week down infinity to go!!

This is what nap time now looks like!

All smiles all the time!!

I can't believe that this is the same little girl I had nine months ago!!! She is going to be nine months on Tuesday and boy have things changed!! Here's a list of all the fun things she is doing at nine moths old

  • pulling her self around the floor
  • drinking water from a sippy cup
  • saying "dadadada" and"og,og,og"(dog)
  • eating ANYTHING you put in front of her and most of the time she finishes her brothers meal too!
  • she is a great napper and sleeper(minus the new trend of waking up at 4ish for a bottle)
  • she LOVES to watch T.V. especially Sesame Street
  • she loves going anywhere in the stroller
  • she LOVES her daddy, and gets so excited to see him and will find him in any room.
  • she loves taking a bath and splashing
  • she loves bouncing in her jumping chair
  • she can sign "all done"
  • loves the binky
  • loves her bottle
  • Loves dogs
  • likes to read "short" books
  • LOVES to steal her brother's toys
  • she loves to be held and tickled
  • she still doesn't have any teeth(but has been able to eat anything that is put in front of her)
  • she like to get her brother in trouble-she will cry anytime he comes near because knows that it will result in her getting picked up.
  • she loves to suck on my keys

she is just a happy baby and we are so glad that she is a part of our family

umm where did she go?

Ryan and Caroline were in their room playing and I walked out of the room and came back and Caroline was gone!! Where did she go? Any guesses? Do you have a guess now?
"keek a boo sister keek a boo."

There she is!! She is really starting to get around, and REALLY fast!

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Where do I begin?

Well, lets just start with last week was the week from HELL....yes I even spelled it out, not trying to sugar coat it!! I thought the week would never end!! Let me start at the beginning of this very lengthy post, Sunday Ryan pooped his underwear, count um THREE times. Totally frustrating because normally he doesn't poop that much and he didn't tell us any of the times before or after, and one of the time was at church. Let me remind you this is just the beginning! Monday, Monday, Monday as I'm sitting here typing I can't even remember Monday or the events of the day it seems like years ago. TUESDAY, Tuesday is the day! When I woke up I thought to myself I should just ignore the yelling kids in their cribs and go back to sleep, I could tell by the way Ryan was yelling for me at 8 that he was in a mood already and it was going to be an uphill battle ALL day!! I had plans with a blog friend who I've never met but been trying to get together with for over a year, so despite the mood of my two year old I wasn't going to cancel my plans for the zoo, and I thought maybe, just maybe the zoo could pull him out of his two year old funk! We got to the zoo and met up with our new friend and had a great time getting to know her and her sweet little boy(I knew her husband from high school), and my plan seemed to work of getting Ry out of his little funk. He was doing so well I decided to let him feed the parrots in the Parrot Paradise. I was holding Caroline and Ryan was running around the boardwalk terrorizing the birds and trying to knock birds off of other children's food sticks. I was walking over to get Ryan from a group of children, when all of the sudden I was on my back and Caroline was lying a foot away from me screaming bloody murder, and all I could hear was a man in the background yelling,"OH MY GOSH SHE FELL SHE FELL, OH MY GOSH SHE DROPPED THE BABY, SHE DROPPED THE BABY, SOMEBODY HELP HER SHE DROPPED THE BABY!" I stood up a little shocked and not quite sure how I fell AND dropped my baby, some one handed her to me and I walked out of the exhibit to look her over and talk to security. Somewhere in the shuffle of it all I forgot about Ryan and some one brought him to me, maybe my friend I was with but I'm not sure( she was on the other side of the exhibit and miss all the excitement), but he didn't have his Buzz Lightyear(which he got for finally going poop in the potty) Caroline was fine just a little bruise on her cheek and very hurt feelings. I noticed right away that we were missing Buzz and went into panic mode! I'm sure I looked like the crazy mom that wasn't too worried about dropping her baby but crazy about finding stupid Buzz. Okay so you are think wow that's awful, and I'm sure it couldn't get much worse but it does, just wait. So we finish up at the zoo, my friend invites us to lunch and we join her. We eat lunch and are just throwing away our trash when I realize Ryan has poop running down his leg!! Lovely!!! We say our goodbyes (quickly) and I take my kids out to the car, strip Ryan down and try and find a starting point to clean up the mess since I made even more of a mess just taking off his underwear. Now one might ask if I know he's had this problem why wouldn't I just put him in the pull-ups, I just don't believe in them, I think he would just treat it like a diaper. I'd rather clean up a few poops and get it over with. Anyways.....so I'm cleaning him up trying not to get angry, so as not to discourage our new found potty training efforts. A man walks up and clears his throat, as if to suggest that he needs into his car. I turn to him and say, " Look you are just going to have to wait because I'm up to my elbows in poop and it's going to take me a little while!" The man looks at me blankly and I turn back to cleaning up my two year old! I get everything in zip lockbags, new underwear on Ryan, buckle him up and head home!! That's not the end of the story either! I get home get my white trash child out of the car, throw my keys in my diaper which is sitting on the passenger seat, get out of the car close my door walk around the car to get Caroline out and to my shock realize I have locked Caroline in the car with the keys!!!! OH MY GOSH!!!! Not only did I drop her but I have locked her in the car!! I am the worst mom ever, this totally negates the hours I spent making beautiful costumes and all the other mom stuff I do!!! I think about braking the window but realize we have NO money and that would make my ghetto car even ghettoer(not a word I'm sure)! And Jared doesn't have a spare on his key chain and it's like a twenty minute drive. So I quickly decide to call 911! Luckily it wasn't a hot day but it was warm enough. Then I remember my white trash kid running around in his underwear, I didn't want to give the firemen the impression that I was a totally unfit mother, so I rushed inside and got Ryan some dirty clothes out of the laundry. By the time I got him dressed we could hear the sirens coming up our street. Ryan was so excited to have the firetruck parked right in front of our house and pointed out all the different hoses and ladders to one of the firemen standing around while the others worked to get the door open. It took maybe a minute or two and Caroline had no clue what was going on! Needless to say after our eventful day everyone took a really good nap!

After a day like that I vowed to myself that I wasn't going ANYWHERE the rest of the week! I held true and we stayed home to get the potty training under control. The rest of the week was less eventful, but stressful none the less. I think we turned the corner with the potty training and I'm hoping this next week is nice and mellow.

So if you know where to send the mother of the year nominations please let me know, or you can just forward this on!

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

training for the polar bear swim

today was so beautiful, the pool was just saying ryan's name! yes it is november 4 and ryan was playing in the pool at 5pm! the first couple times he put his feet in, he'd quickly jump out and tell me his feet were cold, but once he fell in face first he was fine!! luckily Mimi and Gramps pool has a big splash pad so i didn't have to dive in after him. playing with everything a boy LOVES: the hose, a bucket and his trucks, and a fountain-it's the perfect recipe for fun!

while ry waded, caroline snuggled with mimi, and watched her brother splash away!


getting a little extra love~
look at those girls!! i love that cricket loves being with her mimi!

all smiles all the time

I can't even begin to tell you how happy i'm that cricket(that's her new nickname, and i'm trying to make it stick) is a smiley, happy, content baby!! she is happy all the time except for the few minutes before bed or nap time!!



Tuesday, November 3, 2009

binge blogger
read through our new posts and enjoy!!

funny things!

today in the car ry said:
R: mom, i need to go to the hospital!
M: oh, why do you need to go?
R: because my back itches!!

WONDERFUL

we have had the most beautiful, wonderful, perfect, amazing, fabulous, glorious, super, sublime weather!! we have spent every possible moment outside! monday we spent 4 and half hours at the zoo and loved every moment of it.
today we had a great day with mimi and gramps! Ry caught a fish!! Gramps has tried to catch fish at least three times now, and the last time gramps accidentally caught a turtle, ry has talked about it non stop! well today they won!! they caught three fish and ry was so excited!! a little too excited, he bounced this fish all around the pier! so excited!! they were little fish of some kind, but they bit often which is great for the short attention span of a two year old.

on their way to catch the BIG one! did i mention the weather was glorious!!
earlier in the day we went to Heritage Farm in plano! it was small and fun! ry loved walking around and playing in the old school.
Rise your hand if you have a question!
milk, milk, milk

My Little Herd of Elephants

trick or treating with my herd!!
I was in JoAnns fabric trying to decide what costumes to make for the kids for Halloween. Ryan saw the pattern for the Elephant costume and he loved it. He made his elephant noise and wouldn't let go of the pattern. So, elephants they were. We spend hours making them and then he didn't want to put it on! Yikes! He is such a ham I knew he would love it once he had it on and could attract the attention. So i wrestled him into the costume and took him to Jared's office. PawPaw took him down to talk to the girls at the bank who all fussed over him, and he was hooked! He wanted to show everyone his costume!
caroline had a great time , we just held her the entire night. I took the kids with me to run errands on saturday and I had three different people come up and ask to take their pictures because of how cute the costumes were.
not to toot my own horn (toot-toot) but they were pretty dang cute.
i'm so glad my mom helped me get them finished in time! ry loved every minute of collecting his candy~ the best part is he has only had one piece!! he has totally forgotten he has a huge bag full of candy!!

my happy girl!


having a serious conversation with her daddy!



i'm already thinking about next year~~

smiles all around!

this is my happy girl, ry started calling her cricket this week and I think the nickname might stick, she she is chirpy!! if she wants attention or needs something she lets out a high pitch squeal! it works!!
this pictures says it all, she is just happy~~

Pumpkin Patch

okay so from this peaceful, happy picture it appears that everyone was having a wonderful day at the pumpkin patch, oh contraire mon frere, boy were you mistaken!!! this is more what our day looked like!! i don't know what got into her because she is normally so happy and laid back!! i have the exact same picture of ry crying in his costume so I guess it is a family tradition!! it wasn't because of the costume she just cried all afternoon!

caroline screamed and ry wandered around kicking pumpkins!!


this day just didn't go as planned A.T. A.L.L.!!! i was there by myself and it was hard to wrangle both of them especially since caroline is now on the move. i hate it when i have something planned and in my head it sounds wonderful, and then NOTHING goes as planned in any way, shape or form. i had about 4 people ask me if i needed any help and two different people say i will laugh about the pictures later.
no one held still
this was my best shot all day, right when we got there and he was looking at a Buzz Lightyear display!
all ry wanted to do was bounce in the bouncy house, needless to say we were at one last week and he just kind of wandered around lost with out his cousin miss d to play with